BIGGEST PET PEEVE OF ALL TIME!!!

OK SO I HAVE TO RANT. LONG STORY SHORT. MY BIGGEST PET PEEVE IS BEING ACCUSED OF SOMETHING I DID OR DIDNT DO. IF YOU ACCUSE ME OF SOMETHING YOU BETTER BE 100% DAM SURE THAT YOU ARE RIGHT. IF NOT, I DO NOT CARE WHO THE HELL YOU ARE OR WHAT RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE, I WILL BURN YOU TO THE GROUND!!! IF YOURE RIGHT I WILL ADMIT IT, BUT PRAY THAT YOU ARE NOT WRONG, BECAUSE IF YOU ARE... IM GOING TO FLIP SHIT ON YOU. ANYONE WOULD GET PISSED BUT ITS THE ACTION OR THE ATTITUDE BEHIND ACCUSING SOMEONE THAT PISSES ME OFF. THERE ARE LOTS OF WAYS TO HANDLE ASKING OR TELLING SOMEONE SOMETHING, BUT THE MOMENT YOU CHANGE TONE AND GO OFF OR ACCUSE ME THEN ALL HELL IS GOING TO BREAK LOOSE. IVE BEEN ACCUSED OF ONE WAY OR ANOTHER BEFORE AND LETS JUST SAY IN THE END THEY RECEIVED MORE THAN THEY COULD DISH OUT.

YOU KNOW WHAT... FUCK IT... LONG STORY COMING UP AFTER ALL... LOL

SO BASICALLY LAST WEEK SOMEONE IN THE OFFICE THOUGHT I LEFT MY PHONE AND WALLET OUT ON A TABLE IN THE OFFICE. MY STUFF IS ALWAYS ON MY DESK OR IN MY DESK... SO I GO UP AND CHECK IT OUT. IF YOU KNOW ME YOU KNOW THAT I AM LOUDER THAN THE AVERAGE PERSON... BY A LOT... A WHOLE LOT... HAHA. ANYWAYS SO IM SPEAKING LOUDLY ASKING EVERYONE WHOS IS THIS, DID SOMEONE LEAVE IT HERE. IM SO LOUD THAT THE BOSS CAME OUT OF HIS OFFICE AND MY OTHER COWORKER FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE OFFICE CAME OVER AS WELL. WE THOUGHT IT MIGHT HAVE BEEN THE DELIVERY GUY BUT THEY WERE NEVER IN THAT AREA, AND IT DIDNT LOOK LIKE ANY OF THE PEOPLES STUFF WE RECOGNIZED. WE LOOKED AT THE PHONE AND COULDNT RECOGNIZE WHO IT BELONGED TO... TURN THE SCREEN ON AND IT WAS PICTURES OF FLOWERS SO COULDNT FIGURE THAT OUT EITHER. NO CHOICE SO WE OPEN THE WALLET AND JUST PULLED A CREDIT CARD OUT. WE STILL COULDNT RECOGNIZE THE NAME AND STILL COULDNT DETERMINE WHOS IT WAS... SO I PULL A ID OUT AND LOOKED AT THE PICTURE AND VAGUELY THOUGHT IT LOOKED LIKE SOMEONE IN THE OFFICE. I CALL THEIR NAME AND IT WENT FROM 0-100 IN NO SECONDS FLAT... THE PERSON JUST FLIPPED SHIT AND WENT OFF ON ME... YELLING AT ME WHAT ARE YOU DOING GOING THROUGH PEOPLES THINGS, YOU HAVE NO RIGHT, THIS IS PRIVATE, ON AND ON AND ON. I WAS SURPRISED... WE WERE JUST TRYING TO HELP. PERSON CLAIMED THAT THEY DIDNT HEAR ME ASK WHEN EVERYONE IN THE OFFICE CAN HEAR ME ON A DAILY BASIS!!! SO NO THANK YOU OR ANYTHING AND INSTEAD I GET YELLED AT... THEN TENSION WAS HIGH BUT LUCKILY WE HAD CAKE IN THE OFFICE FOR A BDAY SO WE WENT TO EAT THAT. I DIDNT LOOK OR EVEN TALK TO THE PERSON AT ALL FOR THE REST OF THE DAY. EVERYDAY WHEN I GET INTO THE OFFICE I ALWAYS SAY MORNING AND HI TO EVERYONE, AND WHEN I DID THIS LAST WEEK ALL I GOT IN RETURN WAS A BITCH STARE... BITCH STARE LIKE NO OTHER... SOOO SCREW IT, DOESNT MATTER. FAST FORWARD TO MONDAY THIS WEEK... ALL SEEMS FINE FOR THE FIRST FEW HOURS UNTIL THAT PERSON COMES OVER TO MY DESK ANDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD GOES OFF!!! SPAZZING AND SNAPPING AT ME... SAYING THE SAME THINGS AS BEFORE THAT I HAD NO RIGHT TO GO THROUGH THER STUFF, ITS PRIVATE, WHAT I DID WAS WRONG, I CANT DO THIS, I NEVER ASKED THEM, IM HORRIBLE, BLA BLA BLA. I REMAINED CALM AND EXPLAINED WHAT HAPPENED AND FOR THE SAKE OF THE OFFICE AT ONE POINT I EVEN APOLOGIZED JUST TO END IT... AND AT THIS MOMENT IT JUST TURNS FOR THE WORSE... THEY ACCUSE ME OF DIGGING INTO THEIR INFORMATION AND LOOKING FOR THINGS... ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!! I DIDNT LOOK AT ANYTHING BUT THE PICTURE, I SWEAR THAT I DIDNT EVEN LOOK AT ANYTHING AND THEY JUST KEEP GOING AT IT. YOU HAVE TO REALIZE BEING BUDDHIST WHEN I SWEAR ON SOMETHING I MEAN I DID IT OR DIDNT DO IT AND IN THIS CASE I DIDNT. I STARTED GETTING PISSED AND IT GETS LOUDER AND LOUDER TO THE POINT WHERE I AM ABOUT TO LOSE IT ON THIS PERSON. BEING IN THE POSITION I AM, I TOOK THE HIGH ROAD AND DIDNT LOSE ALL MY COOL, I JUST STOOD UP, SAID I WASNT GOING TO DO THIS AND JUST WALKED OUT BEFORE I DID SOMETHING OR SAID SOMETHING THAT I CANT TAKE BACK. YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND... I DONT TAKE SHIT FROM ANYONE... BUT THIS TIME I JUST LEFT THE HEATED SITUATION!!! I NEVER DO THAT!!! EVERYONE WAS SURPRISED I DID THAT TOO. SOME OF THE PEOPLE HAVE SEEN ME SNAP BEFORE SO THEY COULDNT BELIEVE I ACTUALLY HELD BACK AND DIDNT GO OFF ON THEM. I REALLY HAVE GROWN... SO MUCH SELF CONTROL NOW... LOL. IT GOT REALLY HEATED... SO I LEFT FOR A BIT, COOLED DOWN, AND WENT BACK AND SINCE THAT MONDAY INCIDENT I HAVE YET TO SAY HI OR EVEN LOOK AT THEM. I ONLY REALLY DEAL WITH THAT PERSON LIKE ONCE A MONTH FOR WORK STUFF BUT THAT REALLY RUINED MY DAY SINCE IT WAS EARLY. THE BIGGEST PROBLEM OF THIS WHOLE THING IS THAT IT COULD HAVE BEEN HANDLED SO MUCH DIFFERENTLY. THAT PERSON COULD HAVE EMAILED ME ABOUT IT, OR TALKED TO ME PRIVATELY OUTSIDE, OR DURING LUNCH OR 1 OF 100 DIFFERENT OTHER WAYS BUT THEY THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD IDEA TO DO IT EARLY IN THE MORNING IN FRONT OF EVERYONE... AND TO THE ONE PERSON THAT WOULD ACTUALLY SNAP BACK AT YOU... EVEN THOUGH THERE WERE OTHER PEOPLE INVOLVED IN THE INCIDENT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT THEY CAME AFTER... AND I REALLY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THEY WERE THINKING... THEY ACTUALLY WAITED THE ENTIRE WEEKEND AND PROBABLY THOUGHT ABOUT WHAT THEY WERE GOING TO SAY AND WHEN MONDAY CAME AROUND BAM!!! LET ME POKE THIS TIGER AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS. I ALREADY EVEN MOVED ON AND THEY WERE STILL ON IT... THIS PERSON IS VERY PRIVATE BUT THE WAY THEY DEALT WITH IT WAS JUST THE WRONG WAY. WITH THAT, IT RUINED MY DAY. THE REST OF THE WEEK SO FAR??? LOTS OF OTHER WORK STUFF GOING ON, ALL OVER THE PLACE. SO WHAT DOES EVERYONE THINK... TRYING TO HELP SOMEONE AND I GET FLIPPED ON INSTEAD. WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE IN MY POSITION? SOMETHING WAS LEFT OUT AND YOU WANTED TO HELP MAKE SURE SOMEONE DIDNT LOSE THEIR STUFF, IT WAS EVEN ON A FAR TABLE!!! THEY TOTALLY FORGOT ABOUT IT AND INSTEAD OF THANK YOU, YOU GO APE SHIT.TRYING TO HELP... SIGH... THEY JUST COULDNT LET IT GO... EVEN AFTER THE APOLOGY... ACCUSE ME... OH YOU BETTER BE PREPARED WHAT WHATS COMING. YOU BETTER NOT BE WRONG.

WELL... THAT WAS NICE... SEE THIS IS WHY I HAVE THIS BLOG!!! IT DOES FEEL BETTER TO GET THING OUT. ONCE THE NEW PAGE IS UP AND RUNNING I COULD HAVE JUST TOLD THE STORY IN A MINUTE INSTEAD OF TYPING AWAY HERE AT 11:40PM... YES THIS IS ACTUALLY TYPED UP LIVE HAHA.

WHAT ELSE IS THERE??? STILL NOT REALLY DOING MUCH, STILL RECOVERING, STILL DOING THE SAME OLD THING, AND STILL WORKING TOWARDS THAT GOAL. SLOW AND STEADY, SLOW... AND... STEADY...

RT