DONT COMPARE

I DIDNT REALLY HAVE A TOPIC FOR TODAY AND ANY IDEAS I HAD WAS GOING TO BE SHORT AND I FELT LIKE I WANTED TO WRITE SOMETHING MORE... SO I REACHED OUT AND MESSAGED 2 PEOPLE AND 1 REPLIED RIGHT AWAY WITH THIS TOPIC FOR ME :)

DONT COMPARE YOUR LIFE WITH OTHERS. 

ITS AS SIMPLE AS IT GETS. EVERYONES LIFE IS DIFFERENT AND NO TWO ARE ALIKE. WHO AND WHAT THEY HAVE NOW IS A RESULT OF WHAT THEY HAVE DONE AND WHERE THEY HAVE BEEN. THERE IS NO COMPARING HOW YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH THAT OF ANOTHER PERSON. IT JUST DOESNT MAKE SENSE... BUT EVERYONE DOES IT... YOU ONLY SEE THE WHATS ON THE OUTSIDE AND YOU MIGHT LIKE IT OR YOU MIGHT HATE IT, WHO KNOWS... BUT WHAT YOU SEE IS NEVER WHAT YOU GET. YOU DONT KNOW HOW THE OTHER PERSON ENDED UP WHERE THEY ARE WITH WHAT THEY HAVE. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THEY HAD TO DO... OR WHAT THEY HAD TO GIVE UP... EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. WHATS THE POINT IN COMPARING ANYWAYS??? WILL YOU BE HAPPY THAT YOU ARE BETTER THAN SOMEONE??? WILL IT MAKE YOU JEALOUS THAT YOU ARE WORSE THAN SOMEONE??? WHATS THE POINT??? SOMEONE WILL ALWAYS BE BETTER THAN YOU AND SOMEONE WILL ALWAYS BE WORSE THAN YOU. YOU WILL JUST END UP WASTING MORE TIME AND ENERGY TRYING TO COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHER PEOPLE. JUST BE HAPPY FOR YOURSELF AND THE THINGS YOU HAVE. IN THE END ITS ALL ABOUT YOU ANYWAYS, YOURE THE ONE LIVING YOUR LIFE AND NOT SOMEONE ELSE. AS LONG AS YOURE HAPPY WHO CARES WHO HAS WHAT OR WHATNOT. ITS EXACTLY THE SAME WHEN YOU THINK OF THE SAYING: "THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON THE SIDE." WELL... IS IT??? ONCE AGAIN IT COMES BACK TO ONLY SEEING THE SURFACE. JUST LIKE THE ICEBERG PICTURE THAT IS ALWAYS USED IN PSYCHOLOGY WHERE FREUD EXPLAINS THE CONCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS MIND. THE TIP THAT IS ABOVE WATER IS WHAT WE SEE ON THE OUTSIDE LIKE THE MATERIALISTIC THINGS, AND EVERYTHING BENEATH IS WHAT GOT US THERE LIKE ALL THE BLOOD, SWEAT, TEARS, AND EVERYTHING INVISIBLE THAT WENT IN TO GET US TO WHERE WE ARE. ITS EASY TO LOOK AT THE SURFACE AND TRY TO MAKE A COMPARISON BETWEEN HOW GOOD OR HOW BAD YOUR LIFE IS WITH ANOTHER, BECAUSE YOU JUST DONT KNOW WHATS UNDER IT ALL. UNDER DIFFERENT CIRCUMSTANCES YOU MIGHT BE ON THE ONE ON THE OTHER SIDE... YOUR LIFE NOW IS A RESULT OF EVERY MOVE AND EVERY DECISION YOU HAVE EVER MADE. YOU HAVE DECIDED TO COME TO THIS ONE POINT IN TIME, YOU WEIGHED EVERYTHING AND AND CAME TO THE THIS CONCLUSION. EVERYTHING IS A TRADE-OFF BETWEEN ONE CHOICE AND THE NEXT AND FROM THERE EXPANDS AN INFINITE POSSIBILITIES AND SO IN A WAY SOMEWHERE SOMEHOW YOU COULD HAVE ENDED UP AT THAT SPOT AND IS ACTUALLY THERE NOW. SOME PEOPLE ARE HAPPY WITH WHAT THEY HAVE AND WHERE THERE ARE, WHILE OTHERS ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING ELSE... SOMETHING BETTER. SO STOP COMPARING AND LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT AND LET PEOPLE BE JEALOUS AND COMPARE THEIR LIFE TO YOURS :)

WOW... THIS TOPIC TIED INTO A LOT OF TOPICS THAT I HAVE TALKED ABOUT IN THE PAST, BUT THIS TIME IT REALLY CAME TOGETHER. TO SOME IT MIGHT MAKE SENSE AND TO OTHERS IT MIGHT JUST LOOK LIKE THE RAMBLINGS OF A CRAZY GUY LOL BUT IM HAPPY THE WAY IT TURNED OUT.

AND THE REST OF LIFE YOU SAY??? WELL... WORK WAS FINALLY SLOWING DOWN AND I HAD TIME TO CATCH UP ON ALL THE OTHER WORK I NEED TO GET DONE BUT NOPES... I THOUGHT WRONG... ANDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD IM CRAZY BUSY AGAIN... FOOTBALL TEAM IS GOING WELL AND SO IS SOCCER. BESIDES WORK AND TEAMS AND TV I REALLY DONT HAVE THAT MUCH TIME LEFTOVER... AND SINCE I NEED TO WAKE UP EARLY FOR WORK IL LEAVE IT AT THAT :) AND BID YOU GOODNIGHT.

RT